Monogamy Isn’t a Type Of Wood
I know it’s late, but work’s been bat shit crazy lately… So this WTMFI Wednesday post is a week late, But it’s a meme, I’m not going to pass on a sexual meme….so here it is – If you want to take part Just Click on the banner below, the more the merrier!
This Week’s Questions
- Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?
- Do you think monogamy is really possible?
- What has your longest relationship been? Were you faithful the entire time?
- Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?
- Who is the one celebrity you wouldn’t think twice about cheating on your partner with?
BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever heard of Cuckoldry? Does it interest you?
This weeks answers:
1.Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes, In some people’s eyes
I’ve also been cheated on at least twice by X.
2.Do you think monogamy is really possible?
I do think Monogamy is possible, However if and when I enter another fully committed relationship I would be happy for it to be an open relationship as I fully support it in theory…The reality may be very different. But if you truly are in love and are having truly amazing sex that you can’t get enough of…Sure I think monogamy is possible.
3.What has your longest relationship been? Were you faithful the entire time?
Longest would be with X, almost 15 years if you don’t count all the times we’ve broken up. No I haven’t always been faithful, but I’ve never slept with anyone else when we have been together – Only when we have been on a legitimate “break” from each other and our relationship
4.Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?
Yes I would and yes I have.I’ve also been forgiven for my carnal sins.
I forgave X for having sex with some random girl in the park across the road from my home whilst I was pregnant. He also visited a brothel a few times and waited years to tell me about it. I was pissed as I had always told him he could fuck who ever he wanted to – as long as he told me about it. The delay in telling me is what pissed me off, as I’m a supporter of open relationships and marriages.
I was also forgiven by a friend when I was the cheetee – I slept with her babies daddy on numerous occasions. I knew they were kinda together and maybe fucking and that they had a baby together (I lived with my friend and her daughter). I was 15 he was 21. Luckily for both me and her she forgave me and tossed him, she’s now very very happily married with a few more great kids with her husband. I’ll never forget that she forgave me for that fuck up!
5.Who is the one celebrity you wouldn’t think twice about cheating on your partner with?
If Anyone saw my TMI Tuesdays Post, you would know my automatic response is of course, Dave Grohl. The hottest of the hottest!
BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever heard of Cuckoldry? Does it interest you?
The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge- wikipedia
I have heard of Cockoldry before and would love to have a partner who was into it. I could have someone to love whilst being able to fuck FWB, all with the added bonus of it turning on my beloved. Considering I’m all for non-monogamous sexual relationships it should be no surprise that I’d be interested in Cukoldry.
Another weeks Way Too Much Fucking Information Wednesday finished… But there will be another in the next 24hrs- considering that this post is a week over due (naughty violet!!)
Violetxx
kiki says
Can I respond to these questions here? I can’t find the place on the WTMFI site to post my responses—and besides, it’s more fun to answer in the context of someone else’s response, instead of in a vacuum…
1. Have you ever cheated on someone? Have you ever been cheated on?
If you define “cheating” as penile/vaginal insertion, then I cheated in my first marriage with two people, two times each. The first was in the first year or so of my marriage, with my wife’s best friend and “maid of honor.” I’m definitely not proud of that. The second was with the woman who eventually became my second wife. I guess that makes me fairly chaste, by modern standards, at least after the first year or so. But if you define “cheating” as giving another person pleasure that leads to orgasm, with hands, mouth, whatever, then there were more players and a lot more occasions, and “chastity” is kind of out the window…
“Cheated on me?” I hope so. I deserve it. And I love the “cuckold” thing. But probably not. I have a way of getting myself attached to “good girls” with strict ideas about anything sexual.
2. Do you think monogamy is really possible?
In a good relationship with mature well-balanced people, it’s certainly possible. Probably rare, specifically because of those requirements…
3. What has your longest relationship been? Were you faithful the entire time?
15 years. No (see above). But the time between “cheat” #1 and “cheat” #2 was more than 10 years of mostly good behavior (give or take a little flirting, a little “pleasure giving.”)
4. Would you forgive someone who cheated on you?
Absolutely. What a hypocrite I’d be if I didn’t! Actually, I wouldn’t have to forgive. I like the idea.
5. Who is the one celebrity you wouldn’t think twice about cheating on your partner with?
I’m not really into celebrities. I like real people. Sexy, funky, dirty-minded people. No glitz.
BONUS QUESTION:
Have you ever heard of Cuckoldry? Does it interest you?
“The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge- wikipedia”
A lot of people seem to think cuckoldry is a funny word for open marriage. Not at all. In the middle ages when the term was invented, the point was to ridicule the husband in the situation. They were comparing him to birds that dutifully raise the babies of the cuckoo, who lays its eggs in their nest when they’re not looking. The cuckoo goes away and has a good time, and the other bird does all the work. The real point of cuckoldry—then and now—is to humiliate the husband. Even the woman’s dominant pleasure is secondary to that.
If you’re into humiliation as a form of BDSM, this is very, very hot.
screamingviolet says
Sure – If you don’t have your own blog feel free to post it here – I’ve still got to try and get this weeks one finished…So keep an eye out, or followith twitter/rss to see when I get the latest one finished
Violet xx